Maybe that’s just the over rationalization of parenthood by a person, me, who’s read far too much science fiction, and maybe I’m actually very clever and on to something.
Rationalized or not, birth is a portal to another place. I’d say it can’t be understood by those who haven’t walked through it, but it’s more than understanding. It’s a kind of embodyment, and if that’s true for me as a man, I can’t even imagine the transformation on Abby’s part, and I bore witness to it.